Archive | December, 2008
30 Dec


We will open the book. Its pages are blank.We are going to put words on them ourselves.

The book is called Opportunity ,& its first chapter is New Year’s Day.”


~Edith Lovejoy Pierce

A New Year’s toast to love and laughter & happily ever after


Wishing All of you Health,Happiness & success in 2009.



26 Dec


I am sure nobody enjoys unsolicited advice and unsolicited counseling. I just hate it when people assume you need help and are forever ready with ‘quick-fix’ advice. By ‘people’, I mean those who are just ‘acquaintances’- the hi-bye types, those you ‘dislike’ to the core, and those ‘meddlesome’ types.

“If I were you”, “had I been in this situation”, “I think you should…”, “I suggest…”- all this claptrap is bloody pissing off.

It’s not annoying if the advice is coming from a good friend, a genuine well wisher, an experienced person, a stranger who really wants to help or genuine people who genuinely care.

Unsolicited opinions are just not welcome.

Why can’t people resist the temptation to advice?

I especially avoid those ‘insecure’ people who have somehow convinced themselves into believing the jhoot that they are living life to the fullest. They presume you are unhappy and launch into an unending, sermonish chatter on how you should start to live life to the hilt. This is merely a projection of the speaker’s own feeling of failure and inadequacy

just have a look at this commercial

….the melodrama of “LOVE”

25 Dec

Now frankly speaking the truth, i feel this is one of the most talked about topic amongst all of us…i.e. by “the youngistan 😉 ” What do i say its just so lovely to even think of love…and all of you out there who have been in it, can very well understand what i am talking about…

You say it every day. “I love you” “I love you” “I love you” Sometimes, even multiple times of day.

So how would you know when to stop saying it?

I’ve repeated the phrase so many times I feel brainwashed. I haven’t even questioned it – until recently…hmmm…its not that i met someone special or anything of that sorts for that matter..its just dat i was suddenly struck by d feeling that we use these 3 words more than often..n so many times that u dont know whether they still hold the same meaning to u or not..

Just as everybody says Love is the most beautiful feeling that can happen to anybody…anytime…any place whatsoever…But i also agree that love is blind, as once in love you tend to overlook your partner’s fallacies…

Love is like a dream…you dont wanna wake up as you fear that the dream might get over…you want to keep dreaming…stay in that wonderland forever…but then just as you think everything’s so perfect & so true…something unwanted & unexpected & ofcourse least desirable happens and it seems like the end of it…Its seems a disastrous situation at the moment and crying for hours to go non-stop, not talking to anybody, not eating food, becomes a habit…But once you’re out of the situation is when you realize such a big fool you were to even believe in anything like dat!!!

Well this happens with everybody, nowadays everybody has a gf/bf and pretend as if that’s their world…and not just that some of them already begin taking each other as their spouse. Now that surprises me, I don’t believe in all this…This hypocrisy makes me feel sick…How can you trust a person so badly & so madly to the extent of being blindfolded and then at the end of it, be dumped by him/her.

People have no work, or may be they can “manage it”…that’s what I get as an answer from my friends…What they can’t answer is what kinda love is this, where you keep dumping your partner, go find someone else, & this goes on & on like a chain…Even those people who stick to a partner are not loyal…& for those who are loyal, how many of them keep up with their promise of marriage?? Everybody shivers just at the thought of getting married…Unspeakable relationships…You keep hiding them for the sake of everybody else…& at the end of the day sit at home cry your heart out & run to your friend for company…Earlier when everything was normal, those poor friends felt neglected & even upset…but then you had no time for them, now you expect them to be there for you…help you out of the situation…How mean…isn’t it??

The Hardest Thing In Life Isn’t Finding The One You Luv,
It’s Making The One You Luv…Luv you Back..!!

Terror Struck…!!!

25 Dec
I read this email today…Well all of us are already aware of the truth, but still thought i must post this…Please send in ur comments on this, as i think this is the most crucial issue surrounding us at the moment & our obnoxious ministers are sleeping…God forbid someday when some terrorist attacks these ministers or any of their loved ones, then may be they realize the seriousness of the situation & stop thinking & for god’s sake do something for the nation.

Mumbai (Times of India)




Dear Mr. Prime minister

I am a typical mouse from Mumbai. In the local train compartment which has capacity of 100 persons, I travel with 500 more mouse. Mouse at least squeak but we don’t even do that.

Today I heard your speech. In which you said ‘NO BODY WOULD BE SPARED’. I would like to remind you that fourteen years has passed since serial bomb blast in Mumbai took place. Dawood was the main conspirator. Till today he is not caught. All our bolywood actors, our builders, our Gutka king meets him but your Government can not catch him. Reason is simple; all your ministers are hand in glove with him. If any attempt is made to catch him everybody will be exposed. Your statement ‘NOBODY WOULD BE SPARED’ is nothing but a cruel joke on this unfortunate people of India ..

Enough is enough. As such after seeing terrorist attack carried out by about a dozen young boys I realize that if same thing continues days are not away when terrorist will attack by air, destroy our nuclear reactor and there will be one more Hiroshima .

We the people are left with only one mantra. Womb to Bomb to Tomb. You promised Mumbaikar Shanghai what you have given us is Jalianwala Baug.

Today only your home minister resigned. What took you so long to kick out this joker? Only reason was that he was loyal to Gandhi family. Loyalty to Gandhi family is more important than blood of innocent people, isn’t it?

I am born and bought up in Mumbai for last fifty eight years. Believe me corruption in Maharashtra is worse than that in Bihar . Look at all the politician, Sharad Pawar, Chagan Bhujbal, Narayan Rane, Bal Thackray , Gopinath Munde, Raj Thackray, Vilasrao Deshmukh all are rolling in money.  Vilasrao Deshmukh is one of the worst Chief minister I have seen. His only business is to increase the FSI every other day, make money and send it to Delhi so Congress can fight next election. Now the clown has found new way and will increase FSI for fisherman so they can build concrete house right on sea shore. Next time terrorist can comfortably live in those house , enjoy the beauty of sea and then attack the Mumbai at their will.

Recently I had to purchase house in Mumbai. I met about two dozen builders. Everybody wanted about 30% in black. A common person like me knows this and with all your intelligent agency & CBI you and your finance minister are not aware of it.. Where all the black money goes? To the underworld isn’t it? Our politicians take help of these goondas to vacate people by force. I myself was victim of it. If you have time please come to me, I will tell you everything.

If this has been land of fools, idiots then I would not have ever cared to write you this letter. Just see the tragedy, on one side we are reaching moon, people are so intelligent and on other side you politician has converted nectar into deadly poison. I am everything Hindu, Muslim, Christian, Schedule caste, OBC, Muslim OBC, Christian Schedule caste, Creamy Schedule caste only what I am not is INDIAN. You politician have raped every part of mother India by your policy of divide and rule.

Take example of former president Abdul Kalam. Such a intelligent person, such a fine human being. You politician didn’t even spare him.  Your party along with opposition joined the hands, because politician feels they are supreme and there is no place for good person.

Dear Mr Prime minister you are one of the most intelligent person, most learned person. Just wake up, be a real SARDAR. First and foremost expose all selfish politician. Ask Swiss bank to give name of all Indian account holder. Give reins of CBI to independent agency. Let them find wolf among us.. There will be political upheaval but that will better than dance of death which we are witnessing every day.  Just give us ambient where we can work honestly and without fear. Let there be rule of law. Everything else will be taken care of.

Is it Indian people security  OR Politician ?

Choice is yours Mr. Prime Minister. Do you want to be lead by one person or you want to lead the nation of 100 Crore people?

Prakash B. Bajaj

Nepean Sea Road

Mumbai 400 036


22 Dec

Sometimes I wonder whether you even know that I exist
Sometimes I wonder whether you care

Sometimes I wonder whether we are meant to be
Sometimes I wonder whether it’s fair

Sometimes I wonder whether you’ve gone too far away
Sometimes I wonder whether it’s futile to stare

Sometimes I wonder whether to hold on to you
Sometimes I wonder whether to go wordlessly away



Iknow this won’t ever reach you,
I know you don’t even care,
but I had to say it,
I had to try
ps: I love you…..


A Pool of CAKES for my b’day..!!

13 Dec

Now what do i say, i had big b’day celebration this year. With my mom dad out of town on my b’day first i felt it would be really boring & lonely. But frankly speaking my frnds & my relatives made up for it. The reason i had a big b’day bash was ‘coz  the b’day celebrations started on 11th dec. I had a blast wid my skool frnds. Then i got innumerable phone calls & sms’es starting right from 6pm on 11th till 2am on 12th night that is..All my frnds remembered & wished me, that was one of the most special moments i felt after such a long time. 

Then things dint end here & finally on 12th i.e. my b’day i got a lovely surprise. In the afternoon one of frnds Khyati dropped by my place along with some lovely roses & i loved it. In the evening one of my office staff took me to office for some work & there i found out..they had a little party planned for me. (This is the 1st cake for my b’day you can start counting cakes from now even you’ll be shocked)..There was a cake sent in by my Mom Dad..I am sure they must have instructed my office staff to do so. Then on top of it was a big bouqet. Oh My GOD!!! At one point i felt this was too much. I felt overwhelmed.

Then as if this was not enough i had another cake lined up about which i had no clue either!! (Lookout for the 2nd cake…lol)..Then i had to go to my Nani’s place as i had my cousin’s marriage that day. So as i reached there i found everybody had a little cute cake there for me. As there was no time for a party, the cake was all they could do for me. Besides that i also got loads & loads of gifts & chocolates from my cousins. Now then we went to the marriage & the celebrations had almost come to an end, just the phone calls & sms’es had not.

Then on 13th morning i got another cake from one of my fathers friends’ (that was another surprise & the 3rd cake ofcourse, i hope u r still counting)..For the same day afternoon i had planned a big party with my college frnds. So there at lunch we had another blast, lotsa masti & 2 cakes were brought there for me. One to put on my face & hair & the second one ofcourse for me. (The count has reached 5 cakes now.) Well again i got loads of gifts & chocolates (oh i love them!!) as i had invited so many frnds…he he he…Can’t express how happy i am at the moment writing this.

And as if all of this wasn’t enough i have a 6th cake lined up in queue for me at my mama’s place which i am going to cut around 8pm. This i came to know right now just a minute ago. So now the count reaches 6 cakes..!!! so what do u have to say to that?? speechless isn’t it?? even i am…

A little unbelievable but true, i am actually on cloud 9..Seems like i am in a sweet dream which i dont wanna end. How much i love cakes… i realized that even after having so many of them, i can still have even more..!!!

I forgot to mention out of all this, my birthday was on 12th dec. Thank You AYU for such a big surprise for me. I felt really very special that night when i came online & saw that post. You are indeed my bestest frnd.


11 Dec

Life is a pendulum between a smile & a tear. Full of love, believe & fear.
It becomes a blessing & a gift, when there are people like you in it.
You are one of those special few, like the clear drops of dew.
Even time will fail to change, my respectful fondness for you.
You bring me joy & reasons to smile
May this friendship be as long as river Nile

So dear you are that gift to me. People often say that a man’s age is counted by the friends he keep. But I have a different perspective. I don’t make friends easily. For me friendship is a serious, honest, & emotional affair. Therefore I don’t make but rather choose friends.
And here is this note that comes your way to say-

“Thanks Ishita for being a friend to me


You have been a guide when I lost my way, a sister when I lost my calm, a support when I needed it the most, a hope when I spiraled into confusion, a peer when we shared every laugh, to sum up in my words, you have been a true friend. Your sweet smile, your caring hand, your measured advice, your calculated decisions, your happy spirit, your wise nature, your attractive charm, your devoted efforts, it all makes you special in your own way.

There’s fragrance of joy that we spread when we are together. Our childish laugh, our silly talks, those poor jokes,the not so good freak outs & naughty arguments…endless list. It’s all so memorable. And no matter wherever we go in the future your imprints will always be in my heart.
happy birthday



9 Dec


Feelin’ sad…ya and i dunno why?Sometimes i suddenly cry..for no reason at all,just feelin’ alone & its like no one could understand me?.No one here with me to talk or at least just to listen for a while or maybe im just avoiding everybody?I have this mood sometimes and i hate myself for this.I can be the happiest person infront of anyone,im always ready to give advices,talk like i have many experience in life so i can tell them what the best thing to do and(dont’s)I’m sick of it sometimes…why i cant do it for myself?How can i laugh that loud but deep inside me i feel like i’m the loneliest person in this world? Am i different to anyone?im just a simple person who wants simple life and simple happiness!But its like the people i love dont know what i feels?its really hard to please them…that everytime im blaming myself for all the damn bad things happening around me.Why the most important person in our life sometimes dont understand us?They’re even the one who hurt us or makes us down…but we can forgive them right away coz we love them!Nobody is perfect..probably no one!And its sad that someone we never intented to hurt…cant even forgive us?Why???That sometimes we cant even find the right word to tell them how sorry we just forget the past and look forward…to forgive and forget because life is short & so much time are wasted now…

I have a dream…

6 Dec


I always had a dream… a dream I had carefully nurtured so that it can no longer be just a dream. A dream I have been laughed at for, a dream that I am sometimes embarrassed to share, a dream that might just prove to be a nightmare…..

A lot has been going on in my life lately, a lot that will steer the course of my life,a lot that I guess I would willingly give myself to…

It is good to go with the flow…It is best to determine its direction…It is excellent to be able to do it….

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